702609802970260980292018-09-26What do you all think about his answer?
The question is:
Why do most people think beautiful people are stuck up or unapproachable?
3 days ago
Because they’ve been told this, experienced some of it or perceived it that way and because most people aren’t beautiful, they’re not in that ‘club’. attractive or above average looking people often learn that they need to avoid unwanted attention, from all levels of society, not just men, it’s all pervasive. fat gross perverts (women) have tried this on me my whole life. they try to open up with a question, to get your guard down, then try to offer you advice to try to make themselves relevant to you, be seen talking to you for their own ego boosts, etc.
aggression is usually a sign, nay, an admission of having to try to reach for a higher status. being more normal, or chill, or just being in the situation, not necessarily shy, is more a sign of hmm, ok, you caught my eye, but could we be a match? maybe, maybe not, i need to know more. that’s just reality, but a lot of people don’t live in that reality and try to weasel around it and exploit others.
a beautiful person may be approachable if you have a reasonable reason to approach them, but if not, it quickly shuts down and then they’re no longer open to it.
people who are unnaturally quiet, hot or not, are ones to watch and avoid. anyone who’s too quiet is up to something, pretending to be shy to manipulate you for an unfair advantage usually, even if they’re hot. it’s hard to measure, but i avoid these types, male or female, why bother? it’s the quiet ones you’ve gotta watch (george carlin, but true). plus, think of how much energy just one person has. an attractive person gets too much attention, from childhood on, and while there are some benefits, they just can’t afford to be open to being approached by ‘most people’. it can’t work.
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